Home Burial
-Robert Frost
Background
First published in 1930, “Home Burial”
represented a truly new poetic genre: an
extended dramatic exercise in the natural
speech rhythms of a region’s people, from the
mouths of common, yet vivid, characters.
The poem is loosely based on the death of the
poet’s son, which seriously affected his parents’
marriage. Although they never divorced, their
marriage was never the same afterwards. Frost,
like the unnamed farmer, eventually came to
terms with the child’s death. However, his wife,
like Amy, was never able to accept it and, at
times, referred to the world as “evil.
Summary
The poem presents a few moments of charged
dialogue in a strained relationship between a
rural husband and wife who have lost a child.
The woman is distraught after catching sight of
the child’s grave through the window - and
more so when her husband doesn’t immediately
recognize the cause of her distress. She tries to
leave the house; he begs her to stay, for once,
and share her grief with him - to give him a
chance. He cannot understand what it is he
does that offends her or why she should grieve
outwardly so long. She resents him deeply for
his composure, what she sees as his hardheartedness.
She vents some of her anger and
frustration, and he receives it, but the distance
between them remains. She opens the door to
leave, as he calls after her.
Style
➤➤➤ Dramatic narrative largely in the form of
dialogue
➤➤➤ Written in blank verse
Setting
➤➤➤ Location: Staircase of a rural home
➤➤➤Time: After the death of the unnamed
farmer and Amy’s child
➤➤➤ Mood: Dark, pessimistic
Characters
➤➤➤ Unnamed farmer
➤➤➤Amy, the unnamed farmer’s wife
Unnamed farmer
The unnamed farmer has accepted the death of
his child. Time has passed, and he may be more
likely now to say, “That’s the way of the world,”
than, “The world’s evil.” He does grieve, but the
outward indications of his grief are quite
different from those of his wife. He threw
himself into the horrible task of digging his
child’s grave (into physical work). This action
further associates the father with a “way-ofthe-world”
mentality, with the cycles that make
up the farmer’s life, and with an organic view of
life and death. The father did not leave the task
of burial to someone else, instead, he physically
dug into the earth and planted his child’s body
in the soil
Amy
Amy’s grief infuses every part of her and does
not wane with time. She has been compared to
a female character in Frost’s A Masque of
Mercy, of whom another character says, “She’s
had some loss she can’t accept from God.” The
wife remarks that most people make only
pretense of following a loved one to the grave,
when in truth their minds are “making the best
of their way back to life / And living people,
and things they understand.” She, however, will
neither accept this kind of grief nor turn from
the grave back to the world of living, for to do
so is to accept the death. Instead she declares
that “the world’s evil.”
Themes
1. The breakdown and limits of communication
2. The death of a child
3. The collapse of a marriage
Conflict
1. Internal: Both parents mourn the death of
their child.
2. External: The couple disagree about how to
grieve for their child.
Imagery & Symbolism
Frost freights his sparse words with much
meaning, often subtle, sometimes symbolic.
When he talks of rotting birch wood, Amy says
only that his comment has nothing to do with
their child’s body when it was “in the darkened
parlour.” The astute reader, however, will
connect wood rot with human decomposition.
When the husband compares the graveyard to a
bedroom in size, he is being harmlessly literal.
The reader, however, will think that Amy is
recalling with displeasure the bedroom in which
their child was conceived.
The stairway should be a place where the two
might walk together, connecting levels of
shared living; instead, it is merely a stage where body language reinforces the poem’s words.
Amy silently spies on her husband through the
window instead of calling and waving to him.
He climbs the stairs until his nearness makes
her “cower…under him,” at which he promises
not to “come down the stairs.” Frost intends a
pun when the husband complains that his
words to Amy “are nearly always an offence.”
Truly the two are fenced apart, by words and
acts.